Hi Friends,

Its been long time that I wrote anything here. I guess I was way too busy with my own life schedule, although I don’t do too much of achievements in this period.

I am already 24 and will be 25 this October, and am earning a good salary as an engineer.

One thing that strikes my mind most often is the right age to get married. So I thought of asking u friends what should be the right time to take the chance.

I have been into the job since last 19 months, just after completing my graduation. Now most of my relatives are really very eager to get me married. Time n again, they keep on suggesting my parents some real good, cute, smart and all talented girls for me so that I can choose one from them and get married soon, although I have clearly mentioned them that I wont get in to all these for the next 3-4 years, at least. I just can’t understand y are the people so curious to marry me, especially my grandmother. It’s a positive thing that my parents kinda agree me in this matter but not 100 %.

If a guy starts earning some good bucks at an early stage, so does that mean that he should be married soon. Y don’t they want to allow me some more years of my freedom. Or R they just fulfilling their responsibilities.

I just wanted to have an opinion of all my friends here on iland that is it the right age for a Guy to marry. Shun’t I delay for at least 3 years. I know that getting married is a real big decision for one’s ife. A person is loaded with extra responsibilities, he becomes answerable to someone, all his freedom comes to a sudden halt, he has to carry all the ration for the home. Oh my God, the telephone bill is pending. Oh the cooking gas cylinder is empty. The geyser is not working. The wife has to go home. And an endless list of complexities arises. And then comes the real headache of bringing up a child.

I am not against marriage but then want to delay it for some years. I know it has to be someday but Y cant that day be a lil postponed. Need ur expert comments in this matter.

Cheers