<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1"?><rss version="1.0"><channel><title>Diary of Tipra A</title><link>http://scd.rediffiland.com/</link><description>Diary of Tipra A</description><language>en-us</language><item><title>Nice Experince</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"><FONT face=Calibri color=#ff0000 size=4>Hey Friends, </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"><FONT face=Calibri><FONT color=#ff0000><FONT size=4>Long time since I scribbled something here. Was way too busy with my own office chores but I regularly used to visit most of ur blogs and commented to them too frequently. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"><FONT face=Calibri color=#ff0000 size=4>Well , had a real nice experience abt 10 days back. The main power supply of our office had some problem that day and somehow huge flames of fire started coming out of it. It was around 5 o clock in the evening. Since there was no power now and UPS also cud not support for long and also the power generator was short of the fuel, so it was decided to give the remaining hours of the day off. So we called it a day. Since it was just 5 and I it was a lil odd to go home at that early hour(I usually go home at 730 in the evening), so I decided to go somewhere but where. </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"><FONT face=Calibri color=#ff0000 size=4>I along with my office friends gave a real nice thought to go somewhere but cud not come at some conclusion. Called one of my she friends if she was available to accompany me for a timepass date at one of the meeting joints but she was busy. So I finally decide to go alone on my Bike and the lucky decided place was India Gate. But u guys mite now be thinking whats new in goin to India Gate and that too lonely. Isnt that kinda boring. But this was not the case that day. The journey to the I. Gate was different for me this time because I had my earphones put on and turned the music player of my phone at the max volume. That was a real nice experience for me. </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"><FONT face=Calibri color=#ff0000 size=4>Putting the <B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">Favorite</B> music playlist on ur music player and on a <B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">BIKE</B> <B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">ALONE</B> and not <B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">HEEDING</B> to any of the vehicles horns and hooters , just <B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">DRIFTING</B> to some place at the <B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">PEAK</B> traffic hours in a <B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">METRO</B>. Isnt it an altogether different experience. It was, at least for me. I had a feeling that I was flying. <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I know this was a lil risky and dangerous. </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"><FONT face=Calibri color=#ff0000 size=4>But ppl, do give it a try. It gives an awesome feeling. ..But please Beware of the traffic Men, they are in real search for such ppl and desperate to Bust them .</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p><FONT face=Calibri color=#ff0000 size=4> </FONT></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"><FONT face=Calibri color=#ff0000 size=4>All the best to all. </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"><FONT face=Calibri color=#ff0000 size=4>Cheers,</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"><FONT face=Calibri color=#ff0000 size=4>P.S. - Pic of India Gate taken that day</FONT></P><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home6/847/0105139098b5c0155d9a8ab2cfafd656/homep/images/1211035441">]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 20:12:09 +0530</pubDate><link>http://scd.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/17/Nice-Experince.html</link></item><item><title>Please Comment</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#330099 size=4></FONT> </P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#330099 size=4>Hi Friends,</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p><FONT color=#330099 size=4> </FONT></o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#330099 size=4>Its been long time that I wrote anything here. I guess I was way too busy with my own life schedule, although I don't do too much of achievements in this period.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#330099 size=4>I am already 24 and will be 25 this October, and am earning a good salary as an engineer. </FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#330099 size=4></FONT> </P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#330099 size=4>One thing that strikes my mind most often is the right age to get married. So I thought of asking u friends what should be the right time to take the chance.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#330099 size=4>I have been into the job since last 19 months, just after completing my graduation. Now most of my relatives are really very eager to get me married. Time n again, they keep on suggesting my parents some real good, cute, smart and all talented girls for me so that I can choose one from them and get married soon, although I have clearly mentioned them that I wont get in to all these for the next 3-4 years, at least. I just can't understand y are the people so curious to marry me, especially my grandmother. It's a positive thing that my parents kinda agree me in this matter but not 100 %.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#330099 size=4></FONT> </P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#330099 size=4>If a guy starts earning some good bucks at an early stage, so does that mean that he should be married soon. Y don't they want to allow me some more years of my freedom. Or R they just fulfilling their responsibilities.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#330099 size=4>I just wanted to have an opinion of all my friends here on iland that is it the right age for a Guy to marry. Shun't I delay for at least 3 years. I know that getting married is a real big decision for one's <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:City w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">ife</st1:place></st1:City>. A person is loaded with extra responsibilities, he becomes answerable to someone, all his freedom comes to a sudden halt, he has to carry all the ration for the home. Oh my God, the telephone bill is pending. Oh the cooking gas cylinder is empty. The geyser is not working. The wife has to go home. And an endless list of complexities arises. And then comes the real headache of bringing up a child. </FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> </P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#330099 size=4>I am not against marriage but then want to delay it for some years. I know it has to be someday but Y cant that day be a lil postponed. Need ur expert comments in this matter.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#330099 size=4></FONT> </P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#330099 size=4>Cheers</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p><FONT color=#330099 size=4> </FONT></o:p></P>]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 11:57:11 +0530</pubDate><link>http://scd.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/03/27/Please-Comment.html</link></item><item><title>Happiness is ....</title><description><![CDATA[<HR><BR><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Hey this is motivated from the post of one of our ilander friend-</P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> </P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I got to tell u what HAPPINESS means to me. </P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p> </o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is singing your favorite number in your room.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is thinking about someone when it rains.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is vacating your seat in kind for an old lady in a public conveyance.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is when a kid smiles at u and expects the same from u.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is going alone on a bike on a chill winter night.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is spending time with your family.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is visiting your favorite relatives.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is having your favorite food.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is getting in touch with your good old friends.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is remembering all the naughty things done in the college.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is giving your projects before the assigned deadlines.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is fixing a bug in your project after one full days mental labor.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is going on a date during your office hours.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is sleeping in the room during your office house.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is getting your salary each month,</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is loosing out your belly after working out in gym for months.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is watching a romantic movie with your beloved.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is remembering someone special on listening to a song.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is remembering someone special on the mention of a movie name.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is remembering someone special on visiting a place/coffee shop.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is staring at the girls (<SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings"><SPAN style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings">J</SPAN></SPAN>).</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is sipping a hot cup of cocoa on a chilling night.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is watching your favorite movie n number of times.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is wearing a new nice piece of shirt and denims.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is writing this post.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is reading the comments on your posts.</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#6666cc size=4>Happiness is .....</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p><FONT color=#6666cc> </FONT></o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p> </o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I would also like to know what happiness means to all of u.</P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Cheers to all n keep smiling.</P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">[<SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings"><SPAN style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings">J</SPAN></SPAN>]</P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p> </o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p> </o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p> </o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p> </o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p> </o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p> </o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p> </o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p> </o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p> </o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p> </o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p> </o:p></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p> </o:p></P>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 03 Mar 2008 11:33:43 +0530</pubDate><link>http://scd.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/03/03/Happiness-is.html</link></item><item><title>test</title><description><![CDATA[test ]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 21 Jan 2008 12:34:23 +0530</pubDate><link>http://scd.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/01/21/test.html</link></item><item><title>Lets Rewind Ourselves a bit</title><description><![CDATA[<FONT size=2><BR><P><FONT color=#cc0000><FONT size=4>Chalo...thoda piche mudkar dekhe !!!!</FONT> </FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff>Dear Friends,</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>Just think,</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4></FONT> </P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When gulli-danda and kanche (marbles) were more </FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>popular than cricket ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When we always had friends to play aais-paais (I Spy),</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>chhepan-chhepai and pitthoo anytime ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When we desperately waited for 'yeh jo hai jindagi'</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>..</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When chitrahaar, vikram-baitaal, dada daadi ki </FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>kahaniyaan were so fulfilling ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When there was just one tv in every five houses and</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When bisleris were not sold in the trains and we were</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>worrying if papas will get back into the train in time</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>or not when they were getting down at stations to fill </FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>up the water bottle ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When we were going to bed by 9.00pm sharp except for</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>the 'yeh jo hai jindagi' day ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When Holis &amp; Diwalis meant mostly hand-made pakwaans and</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>sweets and moms seeking our help while preparing them </FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When Maths teachers were not worried of our mummys and</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>papas while slapping/beating us ... </FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When we were exchanging comics and stamps and</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>chacha-chaudaris and billus were our heroes ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When we were in nanihaals every summer and loved</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>flying kites and plucking and eating unripe mangoes</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>and leechis ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When one movie every Sunday evening on television was</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>more than asked for and 'ek do teen chaar' and 'Rajni' inspired us ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When 50 paisa meant at least 10 toffees ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When left over pages of the last years notebooks were </FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>used for rough work or even fair work ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When 'chelpark' and 'natraaj' were encouraged against 'reynolds and family' ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When the first rain meant getting drenched and playing</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>in water and mud and making 'kaagaj ki kishtis' ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When there were no phones to tell friends that we will be at their homes at six in the evening ... </FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When our parents always had 15 paise blue colored</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>'antardesis' and 5 paise machli wale stamps at home </FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When we remembered tens of jokes and were not finding</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>'ice-cream and papa' type jokes foolish enough to stop us from laughing ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When we were not seeing patakhes on Diwalis and</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>gulaals on Holis as air and noise polluting or allergic agents ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>the list can be endless ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>on the serious note I would like to summarise with ... </FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When we were using our hearts more than our brains, even for scientifically brainy activities like</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>'thinking' and 'deciding' ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When we were crying and laughing more often, more openly and more sincerily ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When we were enjoying our present more than worrying about our future ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When being emotional was not synonymous to being weak ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When sharing worries and happinesses didnt mean getting vulnerable to the listener ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When blacks and whites were the favourite colors instead of greys ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When journeys also were important and not just the destinations ... </FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>When life was a passenger's sleeper giving enough time and opportunity to enjoy the sceneries from its open and transparent glass windows instead of some superfast's second ac with its curtained, closed and dark windows ...</FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4></FONT> </P><BR><P><FONT color=#3333ff size=4>I really miss .. do u?</FONT></P></FONT>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 14 Jan 2008 17:31:19 +0530</pubDate><link>http://scd.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/01/14/Lets-Rewind-Ourselves-a-bit.html</link></item><item><title>The Woman in ur Life</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><B><SPAN style="COLOR: blue"><FONT color=#ff0000></FONT></SPAN></B> </P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><B><SPAN style="COLOR: blue"><FONT color=#ff0000></FONT></SPAN></B> </P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><B><SPAN style="COLOR: blue"><FONT color=#ff0000>Hi frnds, Got this as part of a mail .....</FONT></SPAN></B></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><B><SPAN style="COLOR: blue"><FONT color=#ff0000>Donno who wrote it, but a well Versed, superb Expression!!! </FONT></SPAN></B></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><B><SPAN style="COLOR: blue"><FONT color=#ff0000>So wanted to share it with u ..</FONT></SPAN></B></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><B><SPAN style="COLOR: blue"></SPAN></B> </P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><B><SPAN style="COLOR: blue"></SPAN></B><SPAN style="COLOR: blue"><BR><BR><BR><BR>Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these <BR>facts as well.<BR><BR>Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;<BR><BR>Who is earning almost as much as you do; <BR><BR>One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as <BR>human as you are; <BR><BR>One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your<BR>Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that <BR>gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements <BR><BR>One, who has lived and loved her parents &amp; brothers &amp; sisters, almost as <BR>much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;<BR><BR>One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who<BR>love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family <BR>name<BR><BR>One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you<BR>sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment <BR>and that kitchen<BR><BR>One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook<BR>food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe <BR>more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a<BR>mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you<BR>are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and <BR>knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns<BR>faster than you;<BR><BR>One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men <BR>at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is<BR>willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational<BR>jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;<BR><BR>Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply<BR>because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise <BR><BR>One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like<BR>yours, are to be met;<BR><BR>One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important<BR>relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some<BR>and trust her;<BR><BR>One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows<BR>in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most<BR>importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it. <BR><BR></SPAN><STRONG><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue">But not many guys understand this...</SPAN></STRONG><SPAN style="COLOR: blue"> </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'"> </SPAN></P>]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2007 18:09:21 +0530</pubDate><link>http://scd.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/10/09/The-Woman-in-ur.html</link></item><item><title>Americanisation -- Check Out the influence</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><BR><BR>AMERICANIZATION<BR><BR><FONT color=#ff0000>U don't open a telephone conversation with a HELLO but with a "Hi"<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>The telephone is never "engaged", it's always "busy".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U don't "disconnect" a phone, U simply "hang-up".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U never "mess-up" things, U only "screw them up".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U never have a "residence" tel. no., U have a "home" no.<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U don't stop at the "signals", but halt at the "lights".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U don't "accelerate", U "step on the gas".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>Your tire never "punctures", U may have a "flat".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>The trains have "coaches" or "boggies' no more but "carriages" or "boxes".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>There R no "petrol pumps", but "gas stations".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>"I don't know nothing", 2 negatives don't make a positive here.<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U no longer meet a "wonderful" person, U meet a "cool" guy<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U don't pull the switch down to light a bulb,rather flick it up.<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>Page 26 of 37<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>There's no "Business Area" only "business districts", and no "districts" but<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>"counties".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>No one stays "a stone's throw away", might"a few blocks away".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>There's no "Town Side", it's "<?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:place w:st="on"><st1:PlaceName w:st="on">Down</st1:PlaceName> <st1:PlaceType w:st="on">Town</st1:PlaceType></st1:place>".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>In hotel U no longer ask for "bill" and pay by "cheque", rather ask for "check" and<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>pay with (Dollar) "bill"s.<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>There R no "soft drinks", only "sodas".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>Life's no longer "miserable" it "stinks".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U don't have a "great" time, U have a "ball".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U don't "sweat it out", U "work U'r butt off".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>Never "post" a letter, always "mail" it and "glue" the stamps, don't "stick" them.<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U no longer live in "flats" or "blocks", find an "apartment".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U don't stand in a "queue", you are in a "line".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U no longer "like" something, U "appreciate" it.<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>"#" is not "hash", it's "pound".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U R not "deaf", U have "impaired hearing".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U R not "lunatic", U are just "mentally challenged".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U R not "disgusting" U R "sick".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U can't get "surprised" U get "zapped".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U don't "schedule" a meeting, U "skejule" it.<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U never "joke", U just "kid".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U never "increase" the pressure, U always "crank" it up.<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U never ask for a pencil "rubber" U ask for an eraser. a rubber is a condom<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U don't try to find a lift U find an elevator.<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U no more ask for a route but for a "RAUT"<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U don't ask somebody "How r u ?", U say "What's up dude?"<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>U never go to see a game U go to watch a game.<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>If U see "World" champions(or Series),read "<st1:place w:st="on"><st1:country-region w:st="on">USA</st1:country-region></st1:place>"champions(or Series).<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>There's no "zero" but "o", no "Z" but "zee".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>There's no FULL STOP after a statement, there's a PERIOD.<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>If someone gets angry at U, U get "flamed".<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>You don't say "How do you do", you say "How you doin"<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>In short U don't speak English, U speak American.<o:p></o:p></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0000>Well u dont' say life is boring u say LIFE SUCKS !!!!!</FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p><FONT color=#ff0000> </FONT></o:p></P>]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2007 18:45:17 +0530</pubDate><link>http://scd.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/06/13/Americanisation-Check-Out-the.html</link></item></channel></rss>